What is it with this fascination that women have with drama? It isn't sufficient that they like to watch it on Tv and the movies and that they read about it... They have to live it.
Excuse me if this sounds a minute sexist, I'm not saying that men don't have their own quirks... That's most of what we've been talking about these e-mails. But women being into drama is something that can thoroughly ruin a great date... A great relationship...hell, it can even ruin a marriage.
Can Crusher
So what is the fascination with drama all about...and best yet, what can you do to make sure that it doesn't ruin what would have been a great connection with a woman? Let's start with this...
A Look into the Past
Have you ever heard of the great female influencers of history: Cleopatra, Queen Elizabeth, Marilyn Monroe...even Joan of Arc? If not, just do a minute bit of study about their lives and you'll find that they used one tool to get men to do Exactly what they wanted: drama.
It's as a matter of fact pretty foreseen, when you think about it: a woman might be physically weaker than a man, but if she can pout and cry or get angry or sad or upset or whatever like that...she can command a man's Instant attention and obedience.
It's the old "damsel in distress" ploy. This is a tactic which women have had to use their entire lives to get what they want...and do you know what?
It works! Most men are scared to death of women getting sad, angry, pouty, hurt, upset or disappointed, so all a woman has to do is use a minute drama and she can have just about any man wrapped around her finger.
Would you give up that kind of power?
Don't think so. So why don't men use drama to get what they want?
Well firstname, we have a bit of a distinct coming when it comes to getting what we want. Men commonly get what they want through intimidation, which is not an selection that most women have...so they use drama. It's kind of a survival mechanism when you think about it, and you as a matter of fact can't blame them, after all... Men are helping to create the problem.
Does Drama Work on You?
Okay, in spite of how much of that ego crusher this might be, it's time to be thoroughly honest with yourself. Think about the last time that you gave in and did something that your woman wanted you to do that was contrary to your personal values or which you naturally didn't want to.
How did she do it? I'd be willing to bet you a dollar
that she used drama. You probably did it because you didn't want to "make her mad" or "upset her." But does this as a matter of fact make sense? Do you as a matter of fact have the power to control an additional one person's choices and emotions in such a way?
Of policy not. But most men give in to this kind of drama because they lack self-confidence to put their foot down...that is, approximately all men.
But Badboys don't put up with drama. They don't give in when a woman acts pouty, unreasonable, adolescent or angry. In other words, they don't let an additional one person's drama control their decisions. And do you know what?
Ironically, that's what women as a matter of fact want in a man. Sure, no woman will admit this in the open. But look at the choices in regard to men they as a matter of fact date. Have you noticed that women don't go for nice guys who do all for them?
They are bored with a guy who folds every time that they start turning on the drama...guys have been doing that to them their entire lives, in hopes that if they do what the woman "wants" that she'll sleep with them.
And the hotter that the woman is, the more accustomed she is to using drama to get what she wants. But when it comes to selecting a man to love and protect her, she as a matter of fact doesn't want a boy that she can dominate... No matter how hard she might try to.
The Real suspect Women Love Drama
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